When I decided to join the NaBloPoMo, I did not take into consideration the fact that our blog server is not always ‘functional’; there are times when it works great and times when you cannot sign in for a whole day (I’m writing this post in word right now).
So, to side step this problem, I vow to post thirty times this month.

I recently finished reading one of my last summer reading books. This book is called The Girl’s Guide to Being a Boss (without being a bitch) by Caitlin Friedman and Kimberly Yorio. I found this book on amazon during a search to find management books for my work reading group. Since there were only two females in our group, we did not get to read this one together. However, I do think it would be beneficial for males to read this book as well because it would give them insight on what it’s “like” to be a female and some of the struggles that women deal with in the workplace.

I loved this book. In addition to being an easy read, the authors give tips/advice that you can actually use and they interview women (that are bosses at big companies) about what it is like to be in charge and the interviewees give tips and advice. The book is divided into ten different chapters which makes it easy to reference. Another benefit of the book is all of the references made in the book that you can look up online for additional sources.

I gave this book ***** (five stars) for its useful advice and because I enjoyed reading it.
The authors share their various experiences with handling difficult situations and decisions, they interviewed other women (there are probably ten to fifteen interviews in the book) so you get even more advice, they give you ideas of what you might be up against and how to avoid some situations and also ways of dealing with situations that have already happened.

Well, I’ve really lost my momentum with my summer reading. It was a bit ambitious, but doable none the less until I found out I was accepted into grad school. Now, I feel like there is just too much to do in too little time. Such is life.

Dealing with Difficult People by Roberta Cava is a book I read a few weeks ago as a required reading for our management team at the store I work at. We are required to read atleast 3 books together each year. We tend to focus on management books and every once in awhile we read a customer service book. I love the idea of reading a book with the group and discussing it. We are assigned a chapter or two at a time, we meet for about an hour each week and discuss what we got out of the book. It is a time for learning, but I usually feel like I learn more about my coworkers than I do about management, which is far more important to me. Discovering more about the people I spend 40+ hours a week with helps me relate to them and enjoy their company more. I learn far more about them during our book discussions than I do day-to-day.

The general consensus of this book was that we did not like it, to this end we discussed topics unrelated to the book more than issues related to it. The book repetitively uses feedback techniques to work through problems. Everything and every situation can be solved with feedback. Make sure you clarify that you understand what someone is saying to you and make sure they understand what you are saying. This summarizes up the book for the most part. The author gives examples of situations/people and implements feedback to get you through it. The examples are very textbook in that they are predictable and simple. The ‘solutions’ are unrealistic in that if you were to follow them whomever you were speaking with would ask you if you were a therapist and/or crazy. My biggest complaint about the book was the repetitiveness of it and the impractical suggestions of how to handle problems.
After having read this book, I do not feel like I am better equiped to handle difficult people, but I do actively use feeback in my daily life now. It is helpful.

As a group we gave the book a B (*** 3 stars). I personally gave it ** (2 stars).
However, I do recommend reading books together, be it with coworkers, friends, family, peers, etc because you are bound to get something out of the experience. But if you pick a mediocre book, you will just learn more about the views, feeling and opinions of the people you are reading it with- which can be invaluable (I say this in risk of sounding terribly sappy).